Helping Latinas around the world
being their best selves and finding their
ideal man.

My dating coach experience began in the town of Quepos, Costa Rica.

Since I was a young girl, I wanted to know what love is. I didn’t feel it with my family in NY, and when I grew up, I decided to travel the world to experience it. 

First stop was Europe, where I thrived with a life full of romances. I learned a lot about dating which came from real life dates with men. I had the chance to learn what the Latin lover type means and also what it feels like to have a broken heart.  I figured out those exciting crazy sensations of a new romance that I labelled Air Amor. And with time, I became very smart at dating and I realized how crucial it is not only to trigger physical attraction, but also emotional and intellectual attraction when dating men.

In Europe I learned about the Casino Business and when i traveled around Central America, I fell in love with Costa Rica. Together with a good friend called Johnny Molina, I decided to open Casino Kamuk, the first gambling entertainment in this town. We became famous and many Hollywood and American TV Stars visited us. 

We hired many professional card dealers and most of them were beautiful Latin women. I witnessed how they were frequently asked out on a date by locals and tourists, and how most of them had  many expectations but  ended only with a broken heart. 

I knew they didn’t know themselves well, they didn’t know what they wanted and much less what they really wanted from a relationship, that was the first time I introduced the concept of their Mi Norte. They were also making simple dating mistakes and I also knew how to help them avoid them. 

So I decided to write notes on small pieces of paper for the casino girls to read on their breaks. Our little notes were reminders like:

“Don’t tell him about your problems”

 “You only need to smile to attract a man, do not stare at him”  

“Wait a few seconds before you answer, when he asks you out for a date”

“It’s always better to listen, and a good question to ask is, are you married?” 

“Remind yourself that you are a beautiful latina and he is lucky to meet you”

“Do not tell him what you think he wants to hear”

“Don’t  tell him you love river rafting if you are afraid of the water”

“Listen to Mi Norte, not your fantasies”.

My advice worked! There was  less crying and fewer broken hearts and more happy stories to tell. So, I decided to write a book with all my notes and help more latin women have successful dating experiences and guide them to meet the right man.

Today, I’m back in the United States, living in Miami and working as a full time dating coach for latin women. Technology has played a big part in reaching and helping many more Latin women, no matter where they are.

Mexico, Panama, Nicaragua,  Venezuela, El Salvador  Colombia, Dominican Republic, Cuba, Argentina, Chile, Peru, Costa Rica, Paraguay, Uruguay.

Today, I’m back in the United States, living in Miami and working as a full time dating coach for latin women. Technology has played a big part in reaching and helping many more Latin women, no matter where they are.

Mexico, Panama, Nicaragua,  Venezuela, El Salvador  Colombia, Dominican Republic, Cuba, Argentina, Chile, Peru, Costa Rica, Paraguay, Uruguay.

Through my guidance, I help latin women to know themselves, know their Mi Norte, know men and how to date them, so they can meet their Mr. Right and build a beautiful long lasting relationship.  

I’m just a click from you. If you have any dating or love related questions, drop me a line or record your selfie video in Ask Vanessa (link) so I can contact you and give you the guidance you need and want.

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